Love or something like that.
Monday, August 21, 2006 by Lilize
i was talking to a friend today and he told me he'd broken up with his 8 year-long girlfriend. i was obviously shocked at first, but then he told me the reason of the breaking up. i wasnt shocked anymore, i was ... speechless."i got tired. her presence was indifferent to me."
WHAT??? i mean. at first you'd think "what a bastard!", but i know he's nothing like that... so is he to blame or is she?
how can a person drag a relationship down to that level? to become indifferent, maybe even annoying?
then i think about life nowadays. i know people who are constantly and tirelessly seeking a better-half to share... anything. i know others who would give their lives for who they believe to be their better-half. and then there are the other ones who just can't stay single.
and where do i fit?
i fit in the "i-don't-care" category. in the "leave-me-alone" or the "let's-just-be-f-buddies" category. or even worse! recently i came to realize i might be getting in the "gettaway!-i've-got-my-own-vibrator" category. what has life done to me? have i become bitter? i have past relationships to blame that, but could i use them as excuse?
"i've had a sucky boyfriend so now i'm a lonely bitch by choice."
sometimes, but just for the sake of ego-feeding, really, i like to think of myself as realist, down-to-earth and sensible, instead of a bitter black-hearted witch. but though i really don't want to sink myself again into yet, another shitty relationship, really, sometimes i think i do.
but the options are becoming so slim...
do we still know how to date?
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Could it be that Elize is right about this whole "dating" thing? Have we become non-dating material? And if so, are we ever gonna love again?
But on the other hand, why is Elize asking so many questions? Could it be that she has too much spare time on her hands? Or could it be that she's just trying to be Carrie Bradshaw?
HAHAHAHA
shaddap, chRRRistian-peter griffin.
ohhhh now i get it. i knew you always wanted to be a peter.
Vc consegue expor bem as coisas que vc ta sentindo no momento. Se eu tento fazer isso, fico parecendo ridiculo, quer dizer, mais ridiculo do que o usual :)
hahaha vc nao eh ridiculo lindão :*
já falei, vc só é complicado demais... hihihi
Thanks for the props! Just so you know, the next book is "Their Finest Hour" by Winston Churchill.
Claro que leio português..e falo tambem, mas com uma mistura de sotaques...norte-americano e cearense.
Gostei do seu site. Com certeza
I think we have forgotten how to love ourselves.
There are so many pressures on us these days - to pay the bills, to jave a better this or a better that , and we are too busy trying to *keep up*.
When we love ourselves and when we are content with what we have, then we can find love.
I'll tell you right now: If I don't like you, I don't lay by you, purr on you, or even belch on you. I just leave you alone and move on as if you don't exist.
Why can't humans be more like that instead of dragging things out beyond the point of absurdity?
Lilize, I tagged you for a fun little game. You can find out how to play here!